The following question was received from the website and Lori felt it appropriate to comment:

Q: Does being in a pagent make you feel like a super star?

A: What a cute question ! Well, I suppose that being in a pageant could certainly make you feel like a star. You are all dressed up and on the stage and people are cheering and applauding and taking pictures, so yes, I think it can make you feel like a star. That is a lovely way to look at things.

Q: What is the most important peice of advice would you give to someone who is preparing for a pageant that is very big for her?

A: One word...Preparation. research the pageant system and work with a Pageant Coach or very close friend who will tell you the truth until you feel confident that win or lose, you can give 100 % during the competition.

Q: This will be my first time entering in a pageant. I been feeling this way two years ago and I am going to finally do it. My question is how should I choose the perfect evening gown and what are the natural colors I should go with?

A: The colors that you should choose in an evening gown are the very same colors that look best on you every day. The best way to choose a gown is to visit several shops that specialize in Pageant attire. Normally the people who run these shops have a good eye for what looks good on a contestant. Try on several different styles and colors. You may be surprised. Also, it is always a good idea to take along a digital camera or a Polaroid camera so that you can see what the dress looks like in a more objective manner. A picture is worth a thousand words. Good luck and I hope you find the perfect dress.

Q: When ranking the top 5 or so, what really captures the judges' attention...beauty or brains?

A:Good question. The Top 5 consists of the judge’s favorite contestants from the pageant so it stands to reason that everyone in the Top 5 did a good job and has something to offer. Normally, the Top 5 is a combination of scores from all segments including interview so all of that is taken into consideration already. At this point I think the one thing that sets one girl apart from the others is poise and charisma. Obviously everyone is pretty and smart to make it this far. One girl has to stand out and it is normally the one who seems the most comfortable and confident on the stage. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: I am from Michigan and I cant seem to find a pageant coach. I just turned in my entry form for Miss Michigan USA and am waiting for their response. In the mean time I would like to brush up my skills with a coach. Do you know of any?

A: You may want to try the internet and just “Google” “Pageant Coaches”. There are several who will work with you via the internet. Of course, if you can find someone in your local area, it would be best to meet with that person one on one. Have you tried any of the local Pageant Shops, Tanning Beds, Hair Salons, etc. or even better do you know any former contestants who might be able to make some suggestions. In addition, you should always call the Director of the pageant. They will normally give you a list of several objective professionals that you can work with. In the end, it is all about preparation so as a last case scenario you can use a video camera and a very objective and honest friend to work with you and offer constructive criticism. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: I have never competed in a USA system pageant. I plan to participate in the 2006 Miss Louisiana USA pageant. Can you offer any advice?

A: The best advice is simple…….prepare, prepare, prepare. You need to work with someone who is familiar with the USA system so that you will know exactly what to expect. In addition, you will need to assemble a wardrobe for interview, swimsuit and evening gown. It is always best to work with a Pageant Coach when possible, but at the very least you should work with someone who is familiar with the pageant. Good luck !

Q: Hi, I'm desperately looking for a pageant coach in my area but am unsuccessful. Is there other options that can guide me such as videos or websites I can look at to help me get through this? thank you so much for your time.

A: Pageants, like any other competition can be stressful. However, stressful should not always be considered a negative. Stress channeled properly turns into preparation and excitement. Working with a Pageant Coach is imperative to preparation. Preparation is imperative to confidence and confidence is imperative to minimal stress levels and ultimately winning. Regarding finding a coach in your area, if you live in South Carolina you should contact Cyrus Frakes at www.gownsandcrowns.com. He is an excellent coach and he also is familiar with a network of coaches that he will be able to refer. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: I competed in a local Miss America preliminary this year and played a classical flute piece for my talent. I loved performing and placed very high so I am going to be in next years pageant. The only problem is I felt the audience didn't understand my flute piece so I am trying to decide on a new one. I am torn between two piece. Both are very familiar songs. One is very fast and impressive and the other very slow and beautiful. I would like to play the slow beautiful one because that is the type of piece I like to play but everyone I talk to says the first would be more impressive. What should I do?

A: You never get a second chance to make a first impression and unfortunately most pageant judges as well as audience members do not have the appreciation for music that you do. You either gain or lose the judge’s attention in less than 10 seconds so my suggestion is to go with the more impressive piece that will garner the most attention. Good luck with your pageant endeavors.

Q: I am 21 years old, and while I have always dreamed of competing in a pageant, I actually never have. I've decided to stop wishing and go ahead and take the plunge, but I'm not sure where it's okay to start from. What I mean is- I have been sent stuff for the Miss SC pageant, and I'm wondering if a big-time pageant like that requires past experience in smaller, local pageants.

A: Like any other competition it is always advantageous to have experience. Having said that, I have seen many “first time” contestants win a pageant on their first try. You do need to be totally prepared by working with a Pageant Coach or at least a former contestant who will give you an idea as to what to expect. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: For evening gown, is it better to wear shoulder-length hair up or down? I have always worn my blond hair down and with soft waves.

A: This is such a simple answer, but you should always wear your hair the way it looks best on you. If it looks better up, then wear it up. If it looks better down, then wear it down. Also, try to pick a gown where the neckline falters the style in which you wear your hair so they are not competing for attention.

Q: Are Pageants FUN AND ENJOYABLE?

A: Pageants are like anything else. They are fun and enjoyable if you make them fun and enjoyable. You should research the pageant system, be totally prepared and prepare yourself to enjoy the experience and learn from it whether you win or lose. I love the old saying…….”it is not whether you win or lose, it is how you play the game.”

Q: Do you feel that the impression left on the judges during your interview carries over to how they score you throughout the pageant?

A: One word………ABSOLUTELY !!!!!

Q: Hello! I have put my son in a couple of local pageants and he is going to a state pageant. Do you know of anyone who coaches boys in pageants. He is participating in a state pageant and I would like some advice.

A: I must confess that I have not had any experience with male beauty pageants. Having said this, I would advise that you contact the Director of the Pageant System and ask if they have a pageant coach that they could recommend. I think that a pageant is a pageant is a pageant so any reputable pageant coach should be able to help. Like anything else, I would check the references from the pageant coach before I proceeded. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: On your list of links, Russell Adair is listed as a photographer... but his link does not work. I was wondering if there is somewhere on the internet that I can see his work. I desperately need new headshots for state competition this summer, but I am unimpressed with the pageant photographers in GA, and can't drive to Tennessee to see Todd Killen or Alabama to see Clay Spann. Is Russell Adair the best in SC? Do you have any other recommendations?

A: I am not sure of the status of Russell Adair’s website. It may be undergoing some upgrades. However, I can attest that Russell Adair is a fabulous photographer. He has been in the business for years and he understands the dynamics of pageant photography. However, please note that Russell does not do the airbrushing that is representative of so many pageant photos today. He is a master at making his subjects look beautiful without airbrushing and quite frankly I am somewhat put off by the ridiculous amount of airbrushing that some photographers employ. I have even had judges who did not recognize a contestant from her photo because it had been so airbrushed. A very good friend of mine, Cyrus Frakes (a pageant coach) says that “a contestant should always be able to live up to her photo. Otherwise, the judges will be disappointed”. I agree. You can contact Russell Adair at 803-794-7233. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: Is salsa dancing with a partner allowed in the miss america paliminaries?

A: I do not believe that you are allowed to have another person on the stage with you during the talent segment of the Miss America Program. I would advise that you contact your State Director for the Miss America Program to confirm. You can go to the Miss America Website to get the contact information. Good luck !

Q: Do you feel that if your interview was wonderful then your outfits wont matter?

A: I do believe that the actual interview session is more important than the outfit but I must caution that an inappropriate outfit can be a distraction which may result in lower scores. My best advice if you are concerned about your outfit is to simply wear something simple that flatters you and that you are comfortable in. Good luck.

Q: I'm going to be participating in County Fair Pageants and Miss Teen Kentucky USA in the upcoming months. I would love to have a professional coach me, but I'm unable to find anyone close to where I live. Do you have any suggestions? Or tips to somewhat prepare myself on my own?

A: My best advice is that you ask the people who produce both of these pageants to give you the names of pageant coaches in your area. Also, most shops that sell pageant gowns also usually have a list of local coaches. If that fails, you can always go to the internet to www.google.com and put in “pageant coaches” and several national coaches will be listed. Most of these coaches have books and videos that you can purchase. Good luck in your pageant endeavors !

Q: I was a contestant in the Miss South Carolina Teen USA pageant last year, and the experience was awesome. This year i will be doing it again and am going to use Cy as a coach. How many sessions do you recommend for me to be completely prepared for the pageant in November?

A: Well congratulations on your attitude. It is always so refreshing to see a contestant who enjoys the overall experience of a pageant. You must be a delightful young lady. Regarding your question, my advice is to meet with Cyrus and explain your objectives to him. He will work with you to develop an outline of preparation. Since you have been in the pageant before you may need only a few refresher classes. If you are looking to make some major changes, then you may need more. You are very wise to start planning early. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: Are there any books I could purchase to help with the interview portion of the pageant. I am considering entering the Ms. Latina North Carolina Pageant this year.

A: If I am not mistaken, Don Baker sells books and tapes on this subject. I would go to “Google” and put in Don Baker Pageant Coach and I am sure his website will come up. Also, you may want to consider using a pageant coach in your area for one on one practice. While reading a book can be very informative, there is nothing like one on one practice. It is invaluable. Good luck in your endeavors.

Q: Having participated in a national level pageant that I was greatly disappointed in after preparing for more than 2 years, I am slightly skeptical about my next endeavor. What is the best way to prepare for a "Mrs." pageant when the age range can vary so greatly?

A: Well, I must admit that I am a little ambivalent when it comes to “Mrs.” Pageants specifically for the reason you referred to…….the variance in the age range. It is difficult to judge a 22 year old and a 45 year old on the same merit system, but this is what happens in these pageants. My best advice is to research the different systems and to find the one that most fairly distributes the points awarded between youthful attributes and mature attributes. I for one would much rather weigh 5 more pounds and have the wisdom of age. Goof luck in your endeavors.

Q: My daughter is 7; she competes in Cinderella, she loves the stage and the stage loves her. She is the only child with red hair (actually the color of a brand new copper penny), blue eyes, and a fair complexion that any girl would die for. My concerns are that she is not progressing along as she should, talent is dance, we are also learning a new talent, (piano), in my opinion, her strongest competition is interview, her personality is simply wonderful, everyone always remembers Emilee, I think that she needs some coaching. Would you keep her in Cinderella, or put her in another pageant circuit. What is your opinion? Please help me.

A: I have to admit that I do not know a great deal about the Cinderella system but I do know quite a bit about children’s pageants in general, so I will give you the best advice that I can. First of all, I congratulate you on the fact that you put your child in pageants because she loves the stage. So many parents put their children in pageants for all the wrong reasons. Having said that, let me tell you, I love red hair and a milky complexion. Even if the judges do not appreciate this fabulous combination now, she will be thrilled with it later in life. I always think of Julianne Moore. Now, if you are concerned that she is not progressing like she should, then I definitely suggest that you consult a pageant coach. This coach can give you an objective opinion and also make suggestions as to the various pageant systems available. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: Pro's of the pageant business tell me I have what it takes to be a national winner, yet I consistently place 1st runner up. Are they just being kind or am I missing something?

A: Well, pageantry is a business when all is said so if this is what you are hearing on a consistent basis, then I think it is probably accurate. If you did not have what it takes then the “kindest” thing a judge can do is not to encourage you to do anymore pageants. This does not seem to be the case. My opinion would be to hire a great pageant coach who could be very objective and see how you place after intense preparation and self evaluation. One last question, do you compete in these pageants for fun or only to win. That may be something that you need to consider. Good luck in your endeavors.

Q: Was wondering where I can find information about the Miss Teen SC USA preliminaries for the upcoming year. I know I will contact Cy to help me! Thanks!

A: The preliminaries for Miss Teen SC USA 2005 have not been announced yet. I suggest that you contact Paula Miles at RPM Productions for details after the first of the year. Also, I personally think it is a great idea to work with Cyrus Frakes. He is fabulous !!!!

Q: My daughter has been doing pageants since the age of one up until a couple of years ago and she stopped because she got braces. Back then I would stay up with the pageant world and she was winning just about everyone I put her in. Now that the braces are off (age 15)we have started back doing pageants again, she having no luck at all winning. What are we doing wrong? We have hired a pageant coach, but I still feel like there is something my daughter and I are not doing right.

A: This is a very difficult question to answer. My best advice is to get objective advice from your pageant coach as well as the judges in the different pageants that your daughter has entered recently. In most cases, the Director of the pageants will provide scores and additional comments from the judges. If it is something obvious, then you should be able to discern this from the judge’s comments. Good luck and have fun. If it stops being fun, then your daughter should stop doing the pageants.

Q: I had abdominal surgery a few years years ago, and I have noticeable scars on my stomach that easily distract an audience. Should I wear a one piece even though I have a great bikini figure?

A: I think you should do exactly what you want to do regardless of a scar. A scar should be worn as a badge of courage. I personally know another pageant contestant who had extensive back surgery and has the scar to prove it and yet she competes in and wins swimsuit events all the time in a two piece. Also, I had breast cancer surgery three years ago and at first I wanted to hide the scar which comes out from under my arm when I wore either a swimsuit or a tank top……..but after thinking about it I decided that the scar is part of who I am. It tells people a story about me and it will do the same for you. If you want to wear a two piece then wear a two piece and do it proudly. If anyone asks about the scars just tell them that they are your “battle scars”. You should be proud. Good Luck !!!

Q: I am the reigning Ms. United States and I will be competing in a prelim for the USA system. I am scared the judges and girls will hold a bias to me since i already have another national title. I am also scared if I lose I will look dumb since I have won a big pageant.

A: Congratulations on your title. To answer your question, being a current title holder can be a two edged sword. On one hand, people will expect a lot from you, but, on the other hand you have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that you have what it takes to win. My best advice is just to go to the pageant and be yourself and not Ms. United States. You are already a winner!

Q: What do you do if you are completely stumped in an interview question?

A: Well, it happens to all of us at least once in our lives. The best thing to do is to remain poised and indicate that “this question requires some additional thought”, which will buy you some time to think. If you just cannot come up with an answer, the best policy is to be honest and say….” I honestly to not have a response to that question at this time…..could you ask me another question and go back to that question later in the interview.” In all probability something will come to you as you are talking about other subjects and do not feel so much pressure or the interview may be over before you are able to return to that subject matter. The best defense is to be honest and to temper it with a little humor. Remain poised and move on. Remember, this is not Jeopardy. You are not awarded points for each question you answer correctly. It is the overall package they are looking for. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: I will be competing in my state for the Miss USA pageant preliminaries. I have chosen a black swimsuit and black evening gown. Do you suggest using color even if black is the best color on me? Should I have a different color for my swimsuit or evening gown so they aren't the same?

A: You have answered your own question. If black is the best color for you then by all means you should wear it. However, some of us get very comfortable in black and do not consider other options. You may want to try on a few different colors and have someone take a photo in each to determine how you look. Sometimes you can be pleasantly surprised.

Q: This is my first preliminary pageant and i would like to know just how much of an edge it would give me to work with Mr. Frakes.

A: I think it will give you an edge to work with any experienced and reputable pageant coach. Mr. Frakes has been in the business for a number of years and has coached dozens of winners including Miss SC USA 2002 and Miss SC USA 2004. His reputation is stellar. I would certainly recommend him. However, if he is not in your geographic area, I am sure you could be directed to a pageant coach who is that would be able to assist as well. Coaching equals preparation and preparation equals confidence and confidence equals your best possible performance.

Q: What is the best way to become more confident during the interview and how can I allow my true self to come through in such short period of time.

A: The key to a successful interview is very simple. Preparation. Using a good friend, a parent, a pageant coach or even a VCR……you should practice, practice, practice until it feels natural. I have seen so many contestants go in unprepared and it is a recipe for disaster. You have only a few minutes in front of the judges to make your self stand out. I will refer to one of my favorite quotes …….”the harder I work……the luckier I get.” Q: My daughter (3) and I (Mrs.) are new to pageants, and almost overwhelmed with how involved they are, from Hair, M/U (even on little ones) to the different types of pageants, & ways of modeling, however I am either stubborn or determined. I am having trouble finding a pageant dress for myself that is affordable and really represents "Me" as a person? The length is not long enough being 5'6" without 3-4" pageant shoes on. and I don't want to be too revealing, but I want a dress that is sophisticated, yet Pageant material. Can you help me here, I've only done 2 pageants so far. Thanks,

A: Well, let me start with the most basic answer. If you are new to pageants, then you will need help getting started on the right path. People do not hesitate to hire an athletic coach for their child or themselves if they are a quarterback or a swimmer nor do they hesitate to hire a coach if they are musically inclined to play the piano or violin. Pageants are a competition. They are a subjective competition, but a competition nonetheless. My first step for you would be to find a good pageant coach in your area to do a complete and objective assessment. Then I would ask his/her opinion on everything from clothing to interview. You may need to book more than one class but I can assure you in the end that this will be money well spent. In addition, all pageant coaches know people who own pageant shops where you can purchase gowns or swimsuits so they are an invaluable resource as well. Good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: I am a finalist for the Miss Teen SC pageant. I don't know what to expect. I don't mind if I win or lose just that I gain from the experience. It's not about scholarships or advancing but helping me gain confidence in myself as a young woman.

A: Well, first of all, let me tell you, I think you have a wonderful and refreshing attitude. I wish everyone felt the same way. This should be a learning experience where you can build self confidence. Now, let me fill you in on the other side of the coin. Not all of the contestants will feel this way and for many of them the only reason they are there is for the crown. Please just be totally prepared. This is a competition and in order to walk away with increased self confidence you need to know that you have done your best. Make sure that you have the right clothes that accent your beauty for stage and for interview and make sure that you have practiced your interview skills until you want to scream. The preparation will pay off in the end. With your charming attitude, it may even pay off with the crown. Good Luck!!!

Q: For Miss America Prelim's, what is the best approach for a contestant's opening and closing statements?

A: I think it is imperative that a contestant focus on three key points that define them as individuals. From these three points you can tailor your opening and closing statements as well as any interview sessions. These key points should be well thought out. Whatever you decide on needs to be natural and easy for you to translate into conversation and presentation. A good pageant coach can help you determine what will set you apart from the other contestants in an objective manner.

Q: I have always looked older than my age and I will be competing in Miss Teen KY USA, I keep hearing that they are looking for "teen". What do you think "teen" qualities are?

A: I think it is imperative to give good advice, even when it is not what someone wants to hear. I have noted recently, as have many of my respected colleagues, that the Miss Teen USA System is definitely looking for a “Teen Look”. In the past some of the Teen winners have looked older and more mature but the trend seems to have changed. Now that does not mean that you could not enter a Teen USA pageant and win but you also may want to consider the option of waiting until you are old enough to enter the Miss USA division. My best advice is to seek out a reputable pageant coach, let them do an analysis and get their honest opinion. I hope this helps and good luck in your pageant endeavors.

Q: I am curious as to whether or not a simple black dress would be appropriate for the Miss Kentucky Teen USA Pageant?

A: Well, the answer is yes and no. I always advise a contestant to wear what looks best on her and what she is comfortable wearing since confidence translates to poise on stage. If you love the dress and it looks good on you, then the answer is yes…….by all means, wear it. However, recently it has appeared that the National Teen USA Pageants are going for a real “teen” look and I do not know that a simple black dress would play up the “teen” aspect. My final answer is this, if you love it and it looks great on you…….wear it. If you are not sure…….keep looking. Good Luck !!!>

Q: My question is I see one piece and two piece swimsuits.  Does it matter at the state level or do they feel you should wear a two piece.  I already own a great one piece, but wonder if they will feel I'm not confident enough to wear a once piece.  Also, the dress I have is awesome on me, but not necessarily the "style" that the dress shop advises me is for Teen Miss Louisiana USA 

A: There is a very simple answer to your question. You should always wear what looks best on you and what you feel most comfortable in. The confidence will translate on stage into poise. I do believe that you should always openly receive advice from experts in the pageant field……but ultimately the decision is up to you. Good luck.

Q: How do I stop from being so nervous in front of the judges during the interviews. Also being nervous during an on-stage interview. 

A: Everyone gets a little nervous when they are in a competitive situation. So, first of all, give yourself a break. Being nervous is normal. However, being nervous should not stand in the way of giving your best performance. You know the old saying, “How do you get to Carnegie Hall………Practice, Practice, Practice”. The same holds true for pageants. You need to practice your interview and your onstage presentation. A pageant coach can be invaluable in this aspect, but if you cannot find or afford a pageant coach then the next best thing is a very honest friend to give you objective feedback. And remember, the judges are only human and they really do want to see each girl do their best. Good luck.

Q: What kind of advice would you give to girls whose parents won't let them be in pageants, but the girl wants to?

A: This is a real dilemma. I would never blatantly suggest that a girl go against the wishes of her parents. I would try to reason with them and explain to them why I wanted to do a pageant. I would also suggest taking them to a local pageant so that they could see for themselves exactly what goes on. Parental support is very important in all aspects of life and I am hopeful that you can change their minds. In the event that you cannot, you can always enter a pageant at age 18 when you become a legal adult. Good luck.

Q: In order to participate in the Miss SC USA pageant, do you feel I need to seek professional advice from a pageant coach?

A: In my opinion, pageants are just like any other competition. If you were an Olympic athlete you would have a coach. If you were a professional singer, you would have a coach. If you were a champion chess player, you would have a coach. In order to do your best and reach your full potential in the world of pageants I feel it is imperative to have a coach. It is not just about winning but about achieving your personal best. A pageant coach will assist you in all aspects of the competition to help make you a more well-rounded contestant. A young woman that is packaged correctly has a better shot at a title. Good luck.

Q:I would like to know what types of outfits to wear to a national pageant.

A: If you are attending a national pageant to observe you should wear anything from business attire to informal cocktail. Anything less is too informal and in most cases, anything more is too formal. I hope this helps !

Q: I am 17 and I really love big fluffy dresses but I noticed that all the girls in the Louisiana Teen USA pageant were wearing straight gowns.

A: I always advise that you wear what looks best on you and what you feel most comfortable in. However, trends change from year to year and even though you want to wear something that fits your personality, you also want to insure that it does not look dated in any way. I am a huge fan of ball gowns on Teen contestants but I have noticed that the Teens are going for a more "mature" look recently. I still stand by my original advice to wear what looks best on you. Good luck !!!!

Q: I have just always tried to be honest with the judges and also with myself while competing in pageants; are the judges really looking for someone who is themselves in the interview and on stage, or are they looking for someone who has been completely trained to give them the answer that they want?

A: The judges really are looking for someone genuine. Fake comes across as fake. However, I do suggest that a contestant keep any very controversial opinions to themselves since a pageant is not the forum in which to air them. Good luck!

Q: I have never been in a pageant before, but I have watched them since I was about 5 years old. I want to do the Miss Greater Greer USA pageant this June, but I do not know where to begin in preparing for it. If you have any advice about pageants in general or what I should do to prepare it would be greatly appreciated.

A: Pageants are just like any other competition in that preparation is key. I suggest that you find a pageant coach (with excellent references) and start working from there. A pageant coach can help you with everything from your wardrobe to interview. If you cannot afford or locate a pageant coach, the next best thing is the advice of a truthful friend and a video camera. If you go to shops that specialize in pageant attire you can try on numerous styles and colors ( and video your self in each because a picture is worth a thousand words) and determine what works best for you. Most people who own these specialty shops are very knowledgeable and can assist you in your choice of wardrobe. But remember, you have to polish your interview skills as well. Read the paper and watch CNN daily and have someone simply ask you questions about current events and your life in general (your goals, hobbies. etc.)..
I hope this helps and good luck !!!

Q: I am a plus size entering my high school pageant. I want to know how can I stand out among all the other contestants, how to pick the "right" dress for my weight, and just other useful tips to help me.

A: I think that it is imperative for every contestant to consider their body size and shape when planning a pageant wardrobe. I will give you the same advice that I give all contestants and that is wear what looks best on you. Choosing the right color is vital. Wear a color that makes your skin tone glow and your eye color stand out. As far as style, one of my favorite styles for any Teen is a ball gown and they are perfect for a plus size model as well. I always advise that you take your camera and video recorder when trying things on because a picture is worth a thousand words. And remember, a dress can look very different on stage that it can in a dressing room, so take that into consideration.

As far as making yourself stand out, the best way to do that is to just be yourself. Concentrate on what makes you special and highlight those characteristics. Treat this as a wonderful and exciting adventure, do your best and just have fun. I know you are going to be great. Good Luck and let us know how it goes !!

Q: How can I best prepare without the going cost killing my adventure?

A: In my opinion, simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. Choose items that look the best on you and play up your best features without going overboard on the cost. A simple dress in a flattering cut and color on the right contestant can easily take the crown. Good luck !!!!

Q: I would like to know the type of questions that are asked in an interview?

A: Unfortunately, and not to be coy, this is a difficult question. Primarily you can feel confident that several questions will be asked directly off of your application so I always advise contestants to know their application inside and out and not to ever put anything on the application that you do not want a judge to ask you about. In addition, it is always wise to study the most recent current events so that you are familiar with world events. Several judges seem to want to concentrate on current event topics. I feel confident that if you are comfortable with your application and you make an effort to study current events (watch CNN all the time) then you should be able to do well in an interview situation. The all time favorite question that judges like to ask and most girls stumble on is really the most simple. It is, "Contestant Number One, can you tell us about yourself". Prepare this answer in advance and take the opportunity to point out numerous positive aspects that will enable you to control the interview. Good luck !!!

Q: I have been in one pageant and scored so-so. I did not make the top ten. I want to know how I can almost guarantee myself to win?

A: I hate to break the news to you, but like anything else in life you cannot guarantee that you will win a pageant. My best advice is this: The harder I work, the "luckier" I get. It is all about preparation. Good Luck!!!

Q: How can i get my picture under gallery and winners?

A: Gowns and Crowns very proudly displays all of the contestants that have worked with the Gowns and Crowns staff who win or place in a pageant in which they are participating.

Q: Do you have any sample questions and answers for the interview part?

A: Gowns and Crowns can only provide clients with sample questions. Please see "rates" on our website for how to book a session today.

Q: I am considering entering a pageant, but I have some tattoos. Is there anything I can use to cover these tattoos?

A: DermaBlend body makeup will normally cover a tattoo and it can be found in most major department stores.

Q: I have no talent and so therefore i cant enter them...and i really do...do you know where i can find someone to help me with a talent i may have?

A: You have two options. The first option is to enter a pageant in a system that does not require a talent such as the Miss USA system. The second option (if you want to enter a pageant that does have a talent segment such as the Miss America system) is to work with a pageant coach in your area to determine what you may be best suited for.

Q: Is personality a more important factor than looks in a pageant?

A: Beauty without spirit is boring. I would not say that it is more important but I would definitely say that it is equally important.
Good example - the new Miss Teen USA !!!!!!

Q:I don't have money to waste or much for expensive gowns or coaches, But feel this is an opportunity that I should not turn down. Do you have any advise for how I can look my best, and get good advise without spending tons of money?

A: First of all, make sure to buy something that flatters you in fit, style and color. This is most important regardless of cost. There are several options. Most pageant contestants are more than willing to sell their wardrobe after the contest is over for a fraction of the original cost. You may want to contact any former contestants that you (or a local pageant coach) know that are approximately your size. You can also go on websites like Ebay and find great deals but just remember, being able to try something on before you buy it is a huge advantage. Lastly, if you look long and hard some major department stores do carry evening wear and it does go on sale at the end of the season for dramatic savings.

Regarding a Pageant Coach. They are invaluable. If I spent my money anywhere it would be with a coach. Athletes use coaches, scholars use tutors to prepare for SAT's, businessmen use motivational speakers to improve their sales. It only makes sense that a pageant contestant would use a coach to improve her skills prior to competition. My advice, save money somewhere else and hire a pageant coach !! In the end they may actually end up saving you money.

Q: While it is undoubtedly always beneficial to look
one's best at all times onstage, I would like your opinion as to how important the unjudged segments of a pageant are, such as the opening number. I realize this may vary from pageant to pageant, but in your experience, is this truly unjudged, or do judges view this as a time to scope out the contestants (as is my feeling).

A: When judging a pageant I think it is only human nature to unconsciously "judge" the contestants each time that you see them. Therefore, I think it is imperative to always look your best and consider your behavior whenever you are in the vicinity of the judges. The answer is "yes" you are being judged.

Q: What type of interview questions do they ask in the Miss South Carolina Teen USA Pageant?

A: Different judges ask different questions so you can never be certain of the type of question that you will be asked depending upon the pageant system. However, I have judged several teen pageants (including Teen USA preliminaries) and I am almost always instructed to ask the contestant questions from her application. You will however get an occasional judge that will ask "current event" questions, so be sure to be informed before you go into interview.

Q: I really wanted to know how important is the evening gown and swimsuit walk? that's my most troubled area i believe is the walk.

A: It is all about presentation. You can have on the most beautiful evening gown or the most perfect swimsuit and if they are not presented correctly, then you will not receive the full positive impact. Your walk, posture and demeanor onstage are all integral parts of the presentation. If you are having trouble with your walk you will definitely want to get some lessons from a local pageant coach or modeling studio. Good luck !!

Q: What is some important things that should be said
in opening of a interview?

A: I think the most important thing that you can do when opening an interview is more proper body language than what you actually say. When you enter the room, be poised and confident. Make direct eye contact with each person and smile. Introduce yourself and if the situation presents itself shake hands with each judge. Then sit down, make direct eye contact, and wait for the first question. This way you will appear confident but not overly eager. Good Luck.

Q: How important is weight in a pageant?

A: All contests (Football, Dance Competitions, SAT's) have certain standards that are held as "measurements" of accomplishment. In beauty contests there are definitely aesthetic standards that must be adhered to. I suggest that you consult with the local Director of any pageant that you are considering if you have any questions regarding a weight issue. Not everyone's ideal of perfection is the same. Good Luck !

Q: I have been doing pageants for over ten years and still get nervous on stage...what can I do? I get so nervous being on stage.

A: You seem to have answered your own question. If you have coaches I am sure that they have advised you that the only way to overcome this fear is through practice. I am concerned that you indicate that you have been doing this for 10 years (which should be plenty of practice). There are some people who love being on stage and others who do not. If this is so terrifying for you, then you might want to consider why you continue to do pageants and put yourself in this position. On the other hand, we all have tasks that we love that correlate with tasks that we hate (example, I love parts of my job, I hate others) but the overall experience is worth while. My best advice would be to remember that 99 % of the people in the audience want you to do well. Just take a deep breath, concentrate on the actual question, give the best answer that you can, give the judges a great big smile and it is over !!!!!! good luck !

Q: Do you think it benefits to have a pageant coach? Or is it a waste of time and money?

A: Pageants are just like any other competition. Olympic athletes have coaches, professional singers have coaches, even students have coaches for SAT's, etc... Anyone who works with a professional to prepare for an event of any kind will have an advantage over someone who does not. Of course, it is possible to win without coaching, but why take the chance. My best advice would be to enlist the help of a professional pageant coach. If you cannot afford one the next best option is a very honest friend with a video camera for you to review your own performance. Remember, a picture is worth a thousand words. Good Luck !!!!!!

Q: Can you give me any advice on how to not shake or be nervous on stage?

A: Practice, practice, practice !!!!!!!!! Practice in front of your friends and family. Have someone videotape your practice sessions so that you can critique them later. Also, always remember that the vast majority of people in the audience and on the judge's panel really want you to do well. Try to relax and enjoy the experience BUT the most valuable factor will still be the live practice sessions. Good Luck !!!!!!

Q: How do you work on "stage presence," i.e. walking, presenting your talent, the little extra details that make you stand out from others?

A: In order to improve your stage presence you have to PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE !!!!!!!! You should try to find a pageant coach in your area where you can work on an actual runway or stage. Good Luck!

Q: How can I get through an interview without messing the whole thing up? My problem is that I get really nervous and no matter how hard I try to pace myself, I still fidget and forget what to say.

A:The entire key to doing well is preparation, preparation, preparation. You should definitely have someone set up several "mock" interviews for you so that you can practice with an actual group of people acting as judges again and again and again until you become comfortable. Also, a Pageant Coach would probably be very helpful in this situation. Good Luck.

Q: In the swimsuit competition what part of the body do judges
look for physical fitness the most? (legs, abs, etc...)

A: Overall body proportion is more important than one individual body part.

Q: Do you think a pageant is won or lost in interview?

A: Without a doubt, I think the pageant is almost always "won" or "lost" in interview.

Q: Do you have to be in a pageant beforehand to win one?

A: No, I have seen first time pageant participants walk away with the crown. However, you do gain experience with each pageant that you enter and experience does normally pay off in the end. Good Luck.

Q:What is the best way to appear more mature, and not the age that is stated on the fact sheet?

A: I do not think it is necessary to "try" and appear more mature
than the age on the application. Your true maturity will show
through regardless. Good luck.

Q:How does a judge know if a participant is genuine or fake?

A: A judge is like any other person in the world. If you are sincere, your sincerity will show through. Trying to "fake" something with a judge (or anyone else) is a bad idea. It is normally very obvious. Be yourself!

Q: Can you be too intelligent or too confident in an interview?

A: Do not give up. Intelligence and confidence are extremely
important in all walks of life, pageants included. It is indeed unfortunate that you have "lost" to girls with less poise, education or compassion than you, but as we all know, life is not always fair. Judging from the small amount that you have written about yourself, you certainly seem like a true winner to me.

Q: I would like to hire an interview or pageant coach, but because I live in a state where pageants are not big I am having difficulty finding one. Do you have any suggestions for how I might find one in the RI, MA, or CT area?

A: The best place to look for pageant coaches that may be available on a national basis is Pageantry Magazine. There is a wonderful ad in the current issue for Kim Aiken, a former Miss America and pageant coach. I would suggest that you get in touch with her and go from there.

Q: Do you think too much importance is placed on swimsuit for a contestant's overall score?

A: In the Miss USA system, swimsuit does play a large role in determining the overall winner. If you feel less than comfortable in the swimsuit division, you may want to research additional pageant systems that do not put so much emphasis on swimsuit. Good Luck.

Q: What is the best way to wear your hair for a pageant?

A: The best way to wear your hair for a pageant is the way that it looks best on you. If it looks great down, wear it down. If it looks great up, wear it up. You may want to work with a stylist and have them take your picture and/or a video with your hair in different styles in each of your outfits. As they say, "a picture is worth a thousand words ". Good Luck.

Q: When the judges ask about my career goals, I really don't have one right now. I rodeo for fun and it makes me a good living. I do want to speak out against child abuse and neglect. What should I say?

A: I would tell them exactly what you have told me. Rodeo sounds fabulous and you must be very athletic and adventurous to do this. In addition, if you want to speak out against child abuse and neglect, then do so, volunteer and let the judges know that you would use the pageant as a positive platform to highlight this shameful issue as well. Good Luck !

Q: What is the ideal size to be for a pageant?

A: The "best size to be for a pageant" is completely dependent upon your height, weight and bone structure. I would suggest that you work with a personal trainer and/or nutritionist in your area to make an informed decision. Good Luck !

Q: Is there a "secret" whit beauty pageants?

A: There is no secret to competing in pageants. Pageants are like anything else in life: "The harder you work, the luckier you get.". I do think that it is an excellent idea to research each pageant system before you enter due to
the fact that each system has a different set of criteria that is weighted differently during the judging phase. Example, if you have a flawless swimsuit body and no on stage talent then I would definitely advise that you
enter the Miss USA system and not the Miss America system where talent is such an important factor. Good Luck!

Q: I am singing for my talent and I have to do it under 2 minutes what do you suggest? I am an alto.

A: When it comes to material for a particular talent and particularly a specialized vocal range, I could be remiss to give you any opinion since I am not a vocal specialist. However, my best advice would be to seek out the services of a vocal coach in your area and present them with this information. Good luck.

Q: I have completed in a pageant which has both a junior and senior division 2 years in a row as a senior contestant. Both years I was 1st runner up to a girl who had formerly been junior queen. Is it impossible for me to win the senior crown over a girl who has once worn the junior crown. Should I settle for 1st runner up?

A: I firmly believe that if you settle for less than the best, that you will get exactly that. Nothing is impossible. Continue to do your best and enter the contest as long as it continues to be fun for you.

Q: What should I do to determine what colors I need to wear and how my hair should be in each part of competition?

A: Many people believe that you should wear your hair in different styles during different segments of competition to show your versatility. I firmly believe that you should wear your hair in the way that it looks best regardless of the competition. If your hair looks fabulous down, then wear it down in swimsuit and evening gown. If your hair looks great up, then wear it up in swimsuit and evening gown. If you are one of the lucky few who can do both, then wear it up in one segment and down in another. One hint, a picture is worth a thousand words. Take a photograph and/or a video of yourself in each outfit with your hair styled in different ways. It will not take long to decide how you want to wear it once you see the photographic evidence. Also, never wear your hair in a way that makes you uncomfortable, it will only show on your face. Good Luck !

Q: Is Hot Pink a Winning Dress Color?

A: I personally think that any color that looks great on the contestant is a winning dress color. There is a school of thought however that believes that black and white are the colors that win the most. Good Luck !!!!!!

Q: Do you have to look at the judges the WHOLE time, or do you just skim the judges a lot and kinda peek at the audience?

A: I think that it is important to make eye contact with the judges, but in a natural way, so that they do not feel like you are staring straight at them the entire time. I also think it is vitally important to acknowledge the
audience as well. It also tends to make you more comfortable when you see all of the people in the audience smiling back at you. In addition, a comfort level with the audience is an indication of poise and the judges
will probably score you higher because of that. Good Luck !

Q: What are the judges exactly looking for in a 5 minute panel interview? For four years I have placed 1st runner up. It's always because of interview.

A: What are the judges looking for ? That is the million dollar question. Per your specific question regarding a five minute panel interview I would stress that:
1) That is not enough time for each judge to ask several in depth questions
2) Most "panel judging" relies heavily on basic interaction
3) Always pay complete and total attention to the judge that you are responding to at the time
4) Maintain your composure and try to control the interview
5) Be prepared and be yourself
Good Luck !!!!!!

Q: What is the Key to Winning?

A: The key to winning is always PREPARATION. You need to
research the pageant system that you are entering and determine which segments are judged and how they are valued. Most pageants are won and/or lost in interview, but there are pageants where all segments (swimsuit, evening gown and interview) are weighted equally. Again, I cannot stress the importance of being prepared. As the saying goes, "the more I prepare, the luckier I get". Luck has very little to do with winning a pageant. Always remember that hard work pays off. Good Luck !!!!!

Q: Do judges like a girl to have a sense of humor in a pageant interview?

A: Judges always love a girl who is natural and has a good sense of humor. However, do not be so relaxed in interview that you fail to answer the questions. Both aspects are extremely important. In closing, I have found very few instances when a good sense of humor was not a positive. Good luck !!!!

Q: Are these beauty pageants more politics or does a girl from a not so well to do family have a chance at winning?

A: I firmly believe that the prominent and established systems like Miss USA and Miss America are basically objective on the national level. I have heard and do suspect that politics do play a role, particularly in local pageants. But remember, pageants are just like anything else, if you are prepared, it is hard for you to be denied. Most pageant directors want a national winner and the only way to get a national winner is to crown a girl on the local and state level who is capable of winning a national title. This is normally the bottom line objective. In closing, yes, I am sure that politics play a role in some pageant circles, but I think that most are fair and that the most deserving girl normally does win the title.

Q: I AM A VERY DOWN TO EARTH KINDA GIRL. I LOVE TO HAVE FUN AND MAKE PEOPLE LAUGH. DO JUDGES LIKE THOSE KIND OF GIRLS?

A: I have judged numerous pageants and I can personally attest to the fact that a natural, optimistic contestant is always a favorite for me. At the same time, I need to caution you that other factors are also considered (ex. poise, knowledge of current events, etc.). My best advice is to be prepared and above all else, to be yourself.

Q.In the Miss USA system, is having a swimsuit model figure the only way to win, even if you look great in gown are a great interview?

A. There are , as you know, three competitive segments in the Miss USA system. They are interview, evening gown and swimsuit. The three segments seem to hold equal value, so it is important that a contestant be strong in all three areas if she decides to enter the Miss USA system. Having said that, if you have access to any Miss USA pageants from previous years, please watch them. I think that you will see that on several occasions, the girl who ultimately won the crown did not have the best swimsuit score.

Q:What would be the best type of song for a dance in the talent competition?

A: The type of song that you use is totally dependent on your style of dance (i.e. ballet, jazz, tap, modern, etc.). Just remember that you want to do three things: 1) Highlight your talent 2) Entertain the audience and 3) Impress the judges.

Q: How do I pick a pageant that is right for me?

A:It is always best to research a pageant before you enter to determine if it fits your personal criteria. If you think your strongest point is talent, then you should look for a pageant that concentrates on talent. The same for interview, swimsuit, etc... The Miss America system focuses heavily on talent and interview while the Miss USA system does not have a talent segment. These are very important factors to consider. You can also go to the web site www.tftj.com for info on all types of pageant systems in every State. Good Luck.

Q: How do you not be nervous? I am always nervous during pageants which I am sure a lot of people are, but I still love doing them?

A:It is only human to be a little nervous when you are on stage. I prefer to think of it as excited instead of nervous. I have been on stage for almost 30 years and I still feel a little twinge of nervous excitement each and every time before I step on the stage. Remember this, the vast majority of people in the audience are excited for the contestants and want to see them succeed. Most of them are in complete awe that you have the confidence to be on that stage. They are in awe of you, not vice versa. Remember, you are there for a reason. Do your best, prepare, take a deep breath and go out there and smile. Find a friendly face or two in the audience to go back to when you are feeling nervous and remember when you are on that stage for that moment, you are the star. Good Luck !!!!

Q: What do you feel is the best way to get in shape for the swimsuit portion of a competition?

A:The swimsuit portion of a pageant competition is the segment where the judges are allowed the assess the overall fitness of the contestant. Due to the athletic nature of this competition, I would suggest that pageant contestants do the same thing that any other athlete would do, hire a personal trainer. Also, be sure to work with a trainer who specializes in pageant competition and not one who specializes in body building or weight lifting, etc. Also, exercise alone will not do the trick. You must also work with your personal trainer and/or a nutritionist to determine a healthy diet to obtain your ultimate goal. Some contestants actually need to eat more (of the proper foods) to build lean muscle and maintain a healthy lifestyle.

Q: What do you feel the judges are looking for in the platform statement?

A:Simple answer, the truth. Whatever your platform may be, I feel that as long as you are committed, passionate and sincere in your answer, then that is what the judges are looking for.

Q: What pageants are there for married women in South Carolina?

A:The most prominent pageant or married women in South Carolina would be the Mrs. South Carolina Pageant which entitles the winner to participate in the Mrs. America Pageant held each year in Hawaii and televised nationally. You can buy a copy of Pageantry Magazine or go the web site Turn For The Judges (www.tftj.com) and find info concerning several pageants for married women. Good Luck.

Q: What do you think is the most important criteria in selecting a national winner?

A:The criteria to win is solely dependent upon the individual pageant. The generic answer would be "the total package normally wins the pageant." However, each pageant has individual segments (ex. Evening Gown, Swimsuit, Interview, Talent etc.) and each pageant system weighs each of these segments differently. In some systems, interview will count for the majority of the score. In others, it may be talent or swimsuit. My advice is to research the system that you are interested in prior to competing so that you are fully aware of the scoring system before hand. Good Luck !

Q: How can an individual get such a wide spread of points in interview with 100 being the highest? You score 98,97,76 at the state pageant. Does that look right? Isn't it to wide of a spread and in that case should there not be another opinion when it varies to such a great degree?

A:As with any contestant, in any age group, I suggest that the evening gown be age appropriate. For a junior or teen contestant that means not too tight or revealing. My best advice is to visit a boutique in your area that specializes in pageant wear. Take someone with you who will give you an honest opinion. In addition, I suggest that you ask the boutique owner's permission to photograph you or video tape you in the dress so that you can view it at home when the pressure is not there to buy. Remember, a picture is worth a thousand words. Also, the most expensive dress is not always the best. Find the style and color that compliments your features and it will translate onto the stage. Good Luck.

Q: How can an individual get such a wide spread of points in interview with 100 being the highest? You score 98,97,76 at the state pageant. Does that look right? Isn't it to wide of a spread and in that case should there not be another opinion when it varies to such a great degree?

A:While it is not the norm to see such a wide spread of points scored in the same category, in the same pageant, by the same contestant, at the same time, it is not unheard of. Remember, judges are only human and judging really only consists of one person's opinion. If there are individual interviews with the judges, it is possible that a contestant simply "bombs" with one of the judges. It is also possible that the contestant is
consistent and the judge, for their own reasons, does not think the contestant did a very good job. If only we could predict in advance what a judge will think. If you feel the discrepancy is too wide, in most cases a
Pageant Director will give you access to a judge's comments which will give you additional info. Remember, you cannot please all of the people all of the time in any aspect of your life. Simply do your best and everything else will usually fall into place. Good Luck !

Q: How can I set myself apart from the other contestants?

A:The only way to set yourself apart from the other contestants is by being yourself. Be confident in who you are as an individual and this, by far, will set you apart.

Q:How do you feel about performing a skit, written by and costumed by the contestant as a talent?

A: Remember that Judges are only ordinary people given an extraordinary task. People in general have a tendency to appreciate what they are familiar with. This is why in most cases, a classical singer, pianist or dancer will win a talent competition. That is not to say that a skit such as you have described will not win. In fact, if you are extremely comfortable with your content and presentation, then by all means, I suggest that you perform the skit. The Judges will appreciate your effort and hopefully will reward it as well.

Q:I really need help!! I get so nervous when I have the microphone up to my mouth. I know I should just relax but the right words do not seem to come out of my mouth correctly. What can I do to improve the nervousness and the stumbling of words that are coming out wrong?

A: Being nervous on stage is normal. Severe stage fright is not. There are several exercises that you might try to overcome this fear.
1) Practice speaking to yourself in front of a mirror.
2) Practice in front of a small group of friends who will be supportive. Ask for constructive criticism.
3)Whenever you are actually in a pageant, ask for some stage time at the microphone to practice before the competition begins.
4) Most importantly, remember that the audience wants you to succeed. Relax and enjoy yourself.

Q: What is the best way to prepare for the interview session without costing an arm and a leg!!

A: The best way to prepare for the interview segment is to practice, practice, practice. Everyone has access to television, newspapers and in most cases, the Internet. Read and retain as much information as you can. Write down questions and have a member of your family or a friend do a mock interview. In most cases, judges will not require you to have a complete and detailed understanding of each and every subject matter and/or current event. But, they do expect you to be informed and aware of what is going on in the world. Eye contact and confidence are two invaluable tools that you must carry with you into the interview segment. Also, wear an outfit that is flattering, but not distracting. In conclusion, the interview segment is viewed
by many pageant professionals to be the most important. Even one session with a pageant interview coach can make all the difference in the world. Good Luck!!!!!!

Q: How important do you think the swimsuit phase of a Miss America preliminary competition is, and do you recommend the use of a personal trainer if one is already in pretty good shape?

Patrice Snow

A: If a segment of any pageant (ex. swimsuit) is included in the judging and given a score, then absolutely, it is important. Of course, there are different pageant systems where more emphasis seems to be placed on swimsuit and systems where more emphasis seems to be placed on talent and on and on. Regarding a personal trainer, I am definitely an advocate. If any other athlete (besides a pageant contestant) were going to compete, then almost always they would be expected to utilize a coach to maximize their potential. The same is true for a pageant contestant and a personal trainer. They are there to assist you in maximizing your results. I hope this helps and good luck. Also, one last thing, make sure that you are working with a certified personal trainer who understands your goals. Ask for references or ask to speak with other women that he may have worked with. If the trainer is working with male power lifters, then his or her expertise in not going to be what you need.

Q: In regards to evening gown, I would like to know what would make me look taller style wise? am only 5'2" I have short legs, any help would be great!!

Melissa Lee - Ann
Pageant System: Miss All Canadian

A: Evening gown styles today are so varied that it will be easy for you to to find a style that maximizes your positive features. Remember, that is just as important as minimizing your least favorite features, so let's start with that. Choose a gown that is a perfect color for your skin tone, hair color and eye color. A great trick is to actually try on a gown with no makeup on and if the color makes you look fresh and alive, then it is the right color. If it makes you look tired and washed out, it is a bad color. It is as simple as that. Often, we are not totally honest with ourselves when we look in the mirror, so another good idea is to take an instant camera
with you (and a good friend) to snap shots of you in each gown. That way, you can view them objectively. Regarding your "short legs". In order to lengthen your lower torso you should strive for one color from top
to bottom. Also, an Empire Waist is a good option to "lengthen" your lower torso. Combine this with a style that plays up your best features (good shoulders, etc.) and you should have a winner.

Q: Do you research a pageant before you enter it?

A: No

Lori's Comment: I read your comments regarding how and why you choose a competition with much interest. I genuinely applaud you for the preparation that you obviously invest in such: however, I feel that one key element is missing that may dramatically increase your chances for success. Someone once said "the harder I work, the luckier I get" and that is so true in the "pageant world". The first step in that preparation should be
researching the system that you are considering. While there are countless types of individuals who enter pageants for countless reasons, there are also countless types of pageant systems. All of these systems have different requirements for winning. I would strongly suggest that in the future you research a pageant (i.e. who owns it, how old is it, who are the former winners, what is the forum, etc.) before entering. You will find it time well spent either in preparing you for the competition or helping you decide that this is not the system for you, therefore not wasting your time or money. Good luck with your future endeavors.

Q: I have won Miss Congeniality two out of the three pageants I've been in. The costs of pageants is expensive. What is the best way to get sponsors if you love competing, but it gets too expensive?

A:Gaining sponsorship in the form of financial funding should be viewed as a "business plan". It is important to draft a professional letter that will be sent to each potential sponsor explaining the Pageant System that you are participating in as well as a brief bio on yourself. In certain instances the pageant may benefit a charity and therefore part of the sponsorship money may be tax deductible. In other cases, some companies are able to incorporate any sponsorship fees into their marketing and advertising budget for the year. Have your parents (or better yet, a professional pageant coach) help you draft a generic letter that can be changed in the future for specific pageants. This will make a tremendous positive impact on the potential sponsors in the future. Regarding the brief bio on yourself that you include, it is considered standard to include a small, professional photo (normally in black and white) with the request. Again, a professional photographer and pageant coach will make a tremendous difference in these stages. I always suggest that a contestant invest in a pageant coach in the beginning to "get off on the right foot." This small investment normally pays for itself in the form of prizes and/or scholarship money very quickly. Good Luck!!

Q: What do judges look for in the interview.

A: Remember, a judging panel is made up of a group of individuals. Each individual has his or her own opinion of what is important. However, I think you can safely say that most qualified pageant judges are looking for a contestant that presents herself in a natural, positive manner and is able to "think on her feet". A judge can always tell when you are not being yourself. Also, always be prepared. Remember, the great secret of success is to be ready when an opportunity comes. And last, but not least, a good sense of humor never hurts.


Q: What exactly does a sponsor have to do in order to help me with a competition? Please give me some vaulable tips and comments. Thank you.

A: I am not sure that I understand your question, but if you are asking about the role of a sponsor I will answer as follows. A sponsor is normally an individual or a business that donates money to you in order for you to compete in the pageant and to underwrite your costs. This money needs to be used specifically for pageant expenses to include entry fee, pageant clothing, and coaching if necessary. In return, most business owners ask for an autographed picture should you win or possibly even the promise that you might appear at one of their fund raising events. Most individual sponsors simply donate the money and ask nothing in return except that you do your best. I hope this answers your question. If not, please write again and I will be happy to go into more detail. Good luck with your pageant endeavors.

Q: In the USA system, do prelminary judges usually choose girls that have been doing pageants for a long time, or do they look for new faces? In other words, do girls who have never competed before stand a chance competing against veterans?

A: I can say unequivocally that a contestant that has never competed in a pageant can easily win the pageant if she is the best candidate. Now, having said that, think about the question. In most cases, a contestant who has done a pageant more than one time is extremely prepared through years of practice. She is normally confident and poised and a bit more relaxed since she has done this before. I do think that practice makes perfect and that with this experience comes confidence which comes across on the stage and judges do love confidence. It is just like any other contest, the tennis player who has played the longest and practiced the most usually wins. But, in a pageant if a new girl is the top delegate in each division then I can assure you that the judges have no problem whatsoever in crowning her as the winner. I hope this helps and good luck in your pageant endeavors.